Hindu Dignity of Sex
When you jump on each other like beasts, it may be fun and an adventure for some time but soon it becomes stale and hackneyed. You will have to move into more violent, beastly sex or suffer the killer boredom. Series of them have brought Humanity a costly solution – divorce.
Hindus never knew divorce in their golden ages . Their marriage was for whole life .
Just by wishing a happy wedding nothing is accomplished. Your associations, pattern of thinking , non-vegetarian eating habbits , drinking wine and interacting insensitively what else can be expected of you except violent and animalistic and unhygienic sex.
As far as Hindus are concerned they have eight kinds of weddings. Whether union comes by romantic marriage, or thru matchmaking of bride thru grandmas and grandpas, a unique sacredness surrounds in the very appearance of bride and groom.
When they meet in the perfuming, well decorated, cozy room for honey moon night an air of reverence surrounds them.
The surrounding in which a Hindu child is raised is of such a high spiritual conduct that when they are groom and bride they cannot become like beasts. Passionate clinging comes much later in the marriage.
So what comes to a Hindu couple in their first meeting ?
Hindu masculinity is judged not by strong sex performance but performing it with awareness of utmost sensitivity and sacredness.
How to go about that:
Each others body parts are sacred , full of mystery. Their coyness , bashful communications and everlasting nay charges the whole room with thrills and suspense.
There is a mystery involved in the interaction of the couple when they live as a joint family of several members, because in this big familiar atmosphere they have to skillfully find the proper circumstances.
Do you know that in many Hindu communities you are not supposed to make love on first honey moon night. For 9 days you are expected to explore the joy of touching each other, embracing, kissing and rise above body, mind , ego, and diving deep into a timeless, still point in deepening joys of embrace.
Do not allow excitement, do not turn horney. Enter the sacredness of embrace, deeper and deeper until you forget the lover and loved and just pure embrace remains. Stay and be there, aware and alert.
There was a law in one of the variety of many Hindu civilizations in antiquity. One who has not mastered this awareness or not able to discover a secret mantra in that restful alertness his marriage was illegal and love making was a crime no matter how great, wealthy or handsome a pair they were. Needless to say that civilization produced highest number of Enlightened men and women.
If you can succeed this timeless silence in your union, on the tenth night, on the day of love making you are very likely to have a glimpse of the orgasmic universe.
Hindu sexual dignity is an urgent need today to save humanity from conjugal life ruining sexual problems as, premature ejaculations, wet dreams, and failing to experience orgasm. This makes your wife or girlfriend frustrated and the plan for divorce begins.
The Hindu way of life teaches you how to stop the leakage of your vital force, preserve semen and stay free from pressures of life.
Now some modern psychologists are predicting that by 2050 a true masculine person, one who knows the art of intimacy will become a history.
The main purpose of Hindu dignity of sex is to enable you to reach to the apex of joy in love making which inundates in the Cosmic Orgasm. This helps your masculinity long lasting.